DR. GILDA CARLE
“AMERICA’S FAVORITE
RELATIONSHIP EXPERT”
WARNS:
40% - 70%
OF MATES CHEAT!!*
This Makes Infidelity
The New Relationship Norm!!
* University of Montreal
So Dr. Gilda wrote this
CHEAT PREVENTION & CURE REMEDY
FOR YOU TO READ...
- DURING your dating days
- BEFORE you get married
- AS your romance blossoms
- WHEN your love becomes committed
- WHILE your relationship is being rekindled
- AFTER you or your partner strays
99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY
is your steady reminder of healthy trust
DR. GILDA CARLE (Ph.D.) is a Relationship Expert, Media Personality, Author, Professor, Columnist, Management Consultant, and founder of www.DrGilda.com. She has been MTV Online's Love Doc, and Spokesperson for Harlequin Books, Hallmark Cards, Galderma Pharmaceuticals, Lavalife.com, and Match.com. She is also Match.com's "Ask Dr. Gilda" advice columnist, which appears on MSN.com. She is currently developing several TV shows.
We ONLY see 2 things:
- What WE want to see
- What OUR MATE wants to show us . . .
Dr. Gilda's
PRESCRIPTION:
"Take one GILDA-GRAM per day, and e-mail me in the morning."
These are the secrets that work for Dr. Gilda’s clients. Learn the secrets that will work for YOU! 99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY will help you be part of a faithful partnership—whether you’re dating, single, about to get married, are already married, are cohabitating, or have just broken up with someone and need fresh relationship skills. WARNING: IF YOU’RE ON THE VERGE OF STRAYING, BEFORE YOU TAKE THE PLUNGE, READ THIS BOOK!
Each of these 99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY describes one of Dr. Gilda’s well-known Gilda-Grams. Each PRESCRIPTION references REAL people, REAL celebrities, and REAL issues. This is your key to longevity in love.
LAP IT UP, LIVE IT UP, LOVE IT UP!
Dear Dr. Gilda,
I’m about to be married. I spent my life savings on the wedding and all the trimmings. But until I read this book, I had lost track of what was REALLY important: my relationship with my future husband!!! Your book brought me back to reality! It taught me so much. I refer to 99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY often, and it has been the topic of many chats with my friends and family. I printed all the book’s pages, but I won't loan them out. I tell people to get their own copy. It is like a Bible to me. Thank you for saving my marriage before it begins!
-- Marie Zaffino, Texas
"Dr. Gilda is America's Favorite Relationship Expert"
-- American Media, Inc.
With 100 million acts of sexual intercourse each day, is yours a faithful partnership?
Will it remain faithful?
"In the years Dr. Gilda Carle counseled guests on my show, her practical advice and vibrant personality endeared her to millions of viewers. She's the best in the business."
-- Sally Jessy Raphael
10 PRESCRIPTIONS
from
99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY
- Say, “I count” before you say, “I care.”
- Don’t misconstrue an erection for personal growth.
- Heat up your frozen zones by sharing your vulnerability.
- Understand that the opposite of love is not hate; it’s indifference.
- If you see one Red Flag, take note. If you see a second, be on your guard. If you see a third, be on your way!
- Make success your best revenge for betrayal.
- Be a relationship role model to your children by making your mate Number One.
- Don’t stop being all of YOU to be half of a couple.
- If you complain and remain, you are not yet in enough pain.
- Forgive, but remember.
Dear Dr. Gilda,
Thank you for writing 99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY! It is right-on. What a value for the money!!!!! You altered my perception of my entire relationship. Your examples of celebrities and non-celebrities, men like me, and even your own stories, made me feel that I am not alone in feeling as I do.
My wife was unfaithful, and we worked things out. (It was very, very rough, but now we’re in that statistic of the 65% of couples that stay together after betrayal). However, when we reunited, we needed ongoing support. I couldn’t find any books that spoke TO ME about how to SUSTAIN a marriage after my wife’s affair. I still felt so much rage!
99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY HAS BECOME MY BIBLE!! Each day, I read another Gilda-Gram Prescription. Quick and easy reading! My wife and I are really bonded now. She tells me I’ve changed. And it’s comforting to know I can always reach out to you online or on the phone when I need support—as I already did a few times. I know I’ll want to speak to you again soon. Thank you for everything!
-- Jeff Freeley, Colorado
DO YOU TRUST YOUR MATE?
Renowned cheater Fieldy, the bassist for Korn, said, "I didn't know you had to have morals to be married. I wanted the cake, the icing, the lit candles, everything . . . [but] whenever you sit down to eat the whole cake, you always pay the price." When his wife discovered his cheating, she carved 4 gashes in his chest with a butcher knife. Now they’re divorced.
99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY
GIVES YOU 5 ESSENTIALS OF TRUST—
the most important ingredient of cheat-free love
- Trust is required for lasting love.
- Trust is symmetrical: If you give trust, you’ll get trust.
- Trust takes a very l-o-n-g time to build.
- Repairing trust after it is broken IS possible.
- Forgiveness is a mandate, but letting go of grudges is a must.
Howard Stern: "I've seen you on TV. You seem to be very bright."
Robin Quivers: "And you always give good advice on these talk shows I've seen you on."
--Howard Stern Show
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Bonus #5: No More “Less Than” Treatment!
Bonus #6: Life Lessons that Shaped You
Bonus #7: Believe you DESERVE
Bonus #8: The Real Meaning of the Loves in Your Life
Bonus #9: Are You Deficient in YIN or YANG?
Bonus #10: Ben Stein Aptly Applies Economics to Love
Bonus #11: The Benefits of Cuddling
WHO IS DR. GILDA?
You've seen her on TV, heard her on radio, and read her comments in newspapers and magazines. She has been dispensing relationship advice for over 20 years, guiding personal relationships at home and professional relationships at work. She advises singles, marrieds, and in-betweens. She coaches executives, celebrities, politicians, newsmakers, and people from different walks of life. She writes books and columns, and, as a management consultant, delivers motivational speeches and does coaching for Fortune 500 companies, associations, and schools. She is a professor of psychology, business, and communications. She has been MTV Online's Love Doc, and Spokesperson for Harlequin Books, Hallmark Cards, Galderma Pharmaceuticals, and Match.com. She is Match.com's weekly Suddenly Single advice columnist, which appears on MSN.com's Dating & Personals page.
DR. GILDA'S PLATFORM: Every people problem is the result of a relationship issue. Every relationship issue is due to broken boundaries. And every broken boundary is the consequence of shaky empowerment. To get a relationship back on track, or even to begin a new and thriving one, acknowledge and project your personal power. Empowered people sustain successful, lasting mergers in love and at work.
Dear Dr. Gilda,
My buddy was having an affair. I thought my marriage was perfect. But that thought changed after I began reading 99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY. I was totally unaware of my own detrimental behavior. I gave the book to my buddy, and he identified key things he should have done. If he had read this book earlier, he might not have ruined his life.
Your book has revived my marriage and my friendship with my wife. As you know, I love your availability by phone and e-mail. You have helped me grow into a GREAT husband and more potent communicator. I’m so glad I read your book!
-- Christopher Quiles, Puerto Rico
RELATIONSHIPS ARE OFTEN TAKEN FOR GRANTED!!!
- 80% of American men said they’d re-marry the same woman. Only 50% of women said they’d re-marry the same man.
- 35% of 6,500 traveling executives said they prefer their BlackBerry to their spouse.
- 65% of committed partners said they spend more time with their computer than with their mate.
- 60% of re-marriages fail. And they do so more quickly than first marriages. After an average of 10 years, 37% of re-marriages dissolve, versus 30% of first marriages.
- When 2,000 adults were asked what they would rather give up for a period of 2 weeks, 48% of women and 30% of men said they would give up sex over the Internet.
- High levels of the sex hormone, oestradiol in women may motivate them toward infidelity. Should potential husbands test for this, along with the mandatory blood test?
- 75% of divorced boomers remarry, but 60% of remarriages end in divorce.
- One woman told author Romi Lassally, "I couldn't care less if I never had sex with my husband again. I have my vibrators. They make me happy and don't leave the toilet seat up." Another confessed, "I constantly fantasize about leaving my husband . . . for another woman." And still another admitted, "When my husband and I are fighting, I purposely wear sexy underwear just to rub it in that he won't be getting any that night."
- 15% of Americans stop having sex to answer their cell phone.
- 40 million Americans have sexless marriages (less than 10 times a year). Partners who feel rejected, withdraw, and often seek satisfaction elsewhere.
- In a 15-year-study of 20,000 people from 1991 to 2006, infidelity rates climbed among certain age groups: those 60 and older, and those 35 and younger.
- The national average for intercourse frequency in marriage is 66 times a year.
- 75% of wives fantasize about a man other than their husbands.
- The infidelity website, AshleyMadison.com, with the tagline, "Life is short. Have an affair," has 3.5 million members. Its 2 best months were October, 2008, with 221,000 NEW members, and November, 2008, with 262,000 NEW members.
- 39% of wives admit to constantly flirting.
- 29% of Americans in a committed relationship admit they lie to their partner about their spending habits. What else do they lie about?
- 1/3 of women admit to sleeping on the far side of the marital bed.
- 50% of women suspect their husbands of cheating, or have actually caught them in the act.
- 34% of married moms are in the midst of, or have had, an affair.
- According to Oprah on one of her shows, 33% of men cheat.
- 77% of married moms said they want more sex.
- In couples trying to recover from infidelity, findings suggest that some relationships can be repaired.
Dear Dr. Gilda,
I just moved into a new apartment. I was trying to mend my family after my husband cheated. We tried to make it work. But it could not. I was so lost.
Sometimes you know what you want to do, but you don’t know how to attack it. This book helped me understand my past, and all the good that can emerge from it.
I love myself now, and I’m going to treat myself the way I DESERVE to be treated! Making ME happy is more vital than worrying about making a mate happy. If I did not understand that before, I surely understand it now, thanks to you, Dr. Gilda.
-- Pam McCord, London, England
Dear Dr. Gilda,
While reading 99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY, I learned a lot about myself, and how to relate to women. I never imagined a book would give me so much knowledge. Now I have confidence and sensitivity for what it takes to be a real partner. And women are flocking to me!! I especially like your BONUS, “The Benefits of Cuddling.” Thank you for making me into a stud!!
-- Marc Steinman, Nashville, Tennessee
THE FANTASY CHEAT
In an article he wrote in New York Magazine, Philip Weiss said, “I’m 52 and have always struggled with the desire for sexual variety; it’s given me pleasure and pain, and jolted my marriage.” His male friends agreed that it’s a function of having a male pulse.
Of course, there was no real solution for Weiss’ woes. He concluded his fantasy with this: “When I told my wife some of the ideas about male sexuality, she got agitated. ‘Okay. Let’s have an open marriage,’ she said, adding that she’d be spending the evening away on Wednesday. I said, No thanks.”
We attract not whom we want, but who we are. Weiss didn’t want to be a philanderer any more than his wife wanted an open marriage! Each attracted the other for a faithful partnership—no matter how tormented the author claims to be. Fantasies are best left as fantasies.
ON THE OTHER HAND . . .
A Chinese man abstained from sex with his wife for 17 years because he wanted to live forever. He believed he could become 1,000 years old if he remained celibate and ate a vegetarian diet. His wife filed for divorce…
Benefits of
99 PRESCRIPTIONS OF FIDELITY:
- Romantic love lasts only up to 3 years—and you need to know how to renew it.
- At the end of the swoon period, solid relationships can spawn unflappable and enduring friendships that ADD to the passion they already have.
- Couples naturally become bored over time—unless they consciously make their routines exciting.
- The more honest partners are with each other, the more committed to each other they are.
- The more exciting you are, the less likely your partner will stray.
"Dr. Gilda is TV's #1 talk-show therapist; hotter than the Sahara; part philosopher and part stand-up comic"
-- Gannett Newspapers
Being betrayed is no fun! DR. GILDA knows, first hand . . .
Excerpt from
99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY
by
Dr Gilda Carle
PRESCRIPTION #55
Gilda-Gram:
If you’re desperate for love, you’ll settle for anyone with a pulse.
I had just finished writing one of my books and I was very tired and very lonely. For quite some time, I had put all things social on the back burner until my manuscript was complete. For too many months, I ate, drank, and slept only with my book-to-be. Some exciting partner that made!
When the book was finished, I longed for the parties and social events many of my friends had been enjoying. So I traipsed to New York’s Hamptons scene, and partied wildly.
As anyone can tell you, you can be surrounded by tons of people, and still feel lonely. That was how I felt. The glitz and glamour engulfed me, and sometimes swallowed me whole, but I felt that I was not connecting on a deep enough level. People attended many parties every night, and we stayed at each for maybe half an hour. Long, intriguing conversations with people I wanted to KNOW were impossible to have. Long, intriguing relationships were also missing.
At first, I enjoyed my excitement with the rich and famous people, but I soon discovered I was one person who needed more.
A friend introduced me to a guy dubbed “the most eligible man in the Hamptons.” We began seeing each other. I didn’t want to admit that he was shallow. I ignored his wandering eyes. I dismissed his secrecy and his lies. We were together for almost 2 years (!!!), during which I suffered intense emotional pain. My book was doing very well. But because I had been desperate for love, . . .
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Dear Dr. Gilda,
I was so bored in my marriage that I just couldn’t take another day. So I had an affair. Rather than share my feelings with my wife, as you advise, I did what you advise against—I found a lover. Of course, as you predicted, that didn’t work out. ARE YOU PSYCHIC?? Everything blew up in my face, as you said it would, and I became terrified! Thankfully, my wife forgave me, but I almost lost my family. Your book reminds me every day of what I have at home, even during moments when I am still tempted. I keep it in my bathroom, where I can re-read one Gilda-Gram Prescription each day. 99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY is the only thing that’s kept me grounded. And your humor makes me laugh!
-- Ken O’Reilly, New York
Dr. Gilda Carle is an absolute wonder. Whether she is successful by hypnotizing us into believing that we are terrific, or she actually teaches us how to be terrific, is a mystery I will never unravel.
-- J. Richard Goldstein, M.D., former New Jersey State Commissioner of Health; President and CEO, New Jersey Council of Teaching Hospitals
Dear Dr. Gilda,
WOW! What a great book!! We are supposed to read only ONE Gilda-Gram Prescription per day, but we can’t put this down!! We’re about to get married in a few months. Many of our newly married friends are already cheating—which scares us about our own future. Your book opened our eyes to what we can do NOW to preserve the love we share, some of which we unfortunately already take for granted. NO MORE! Thank you so much for writing this! We’re BOTH reading and discussing it.
PS: We love that this is an e-book. We got this book on our computer after just ONE CLICK! What an awesome system!
-- Jon and Elizabeth Sterling, Washington, D.C.
People stray when they feel emotionally unsafe
in their relationship.
Dear Dr. Gilda,
Before reading your e-book, I was blaming guys for my dysfunctional relationships. I should have worked on my own stuff a long time ago. 99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY taught me this important lesson. I just met the man of my dreams, and I won’t allow distrust to sabotage this one. I can’t thank you enough, Dr. Gilda.
-- Lisa Lonnigan, Bridgeport, Connecticut
Excerpt from
99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY
by
Dr Gilda Carle
PRESCRIPTION #6
Gilda-Gram:
Give your mate emotional safety.
All couples have some issues. But couples that express warm, supportive feelings for one another will stay married, and work their issues out, rather than seek divorce. In a large study, it was found that the difference between couples who made it and those who didn’t was the number of positive statements they made toward each other: The ones who survived offered 3 positives for each negative! When was the last time you COUNTED your positive remarks to your significant other?
Jenny and John were together for 4 years. John was withholding. When he lost his job, he waited 2 weeks before sharing the bad news with his girlfriend. When his father became sick with a serious disease, he didn’t tell Jenny about that until later. Jenny blindly believed they had a great relationship. When they consulted me, John revealed he didn’t feel “safe” to tell Jenny many of his difficult issues. Jenny was astonished by John’s revelation.
I questioned the meaning of relationship “safety” for each of them. Jenny interpreted it as being protected from bodily harm. But John had another view: he…
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Dear Dr. Gilda,
You are one tough lady!! In my last Instant Advice session with you, you said, “Your low self-esteem explains why you are invisible to your husband. The way your partner treats you reflects how you treat yourself. YOUR HUSBAND DOESN’T RESPECT YOU ENOUGH TO HONOR YOUR NEEDS. That’s why he’s cheating!”
Oh, that really hurt! But, Dr. Gilda, you somehow always know what I NEED to hear. With your help, I have done a full 180! BECAUSE I NOW RESPECT MYSELF, my husband treats me differently!!! It is JUST AS YOU SAID!! Now with 99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY, one Gilda-Gram Prescription each day has become my daily vitamin. This is a necessary book for EVERY MAN AND WOMAN WHO WANTS LASTING LOVE!!
-- Crystal Meadow Jones, Virginia
BOTH MEN AND WOMEN CHEAT!!
In medieval France, if a wife was unfaithful, one penalty would be to humiliate her by making her run after a chicken through the village—naked! But it was in this 21st Century when I received this unfortunate e-mail from a man who soon became a client:
Dear Dr. Gilda,
I am a 41-year-old who just got divorced. Now I am in a situation that has brought me to the point of insanity. I fell in love with a woman who has displayed her love for me in her own way. She is a married woman whose husband was deported over a year ago. He was abusive—a gambler and a drinker. I am the opposite: professional and well mannered. She and I took a break so she could focus on her divorce. Yet, the other day, we bumped into each other and she was cold to me. She claimed her husband is back. I know she is lying. It is killing me, and I don’t know what to do. I am so lost. I am scared to lose her. I love her more than anything. What can I do? My heart is broken.
Nowhere to Run
Dear Nowhere to Run,
You say that you’re scared to lose this woman. But you can’t lose what you never had. The two of you had AN AFFAIR. The woman was and is still married, whether her husband is physically living with her or has been sent away. He may have had some unsavory traits, but she chose to remain with him until his alleged deportation. My Gilda-Gram says, “Everyone is where s/he wants to be.” If she had been miserable enough, she would have left the marriage. That’s what you did in your own marriage, isn’t it? But instead of leaving her husband, this woman chose to play with you. In the wake of your divorce, you took the affair too seriously. Emerging from your dead marriage prevented you from thinking and seeing clearly.
What you must ask yourself is why you would choose to love someone who is married. In your emotionally compromised state, you were willing to settle for poor treatment and rationalize it as “love.” You say you’re at the “point of insanity,” but what you need is a cold shower in reality. No matter what you do, this woman . . .
(continued in 99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY)
Dr. Gilda Carle elevates the self-esteem of everyone from CEOs to street people . . . cheerleader for our deepest selves . . . facilitator of change.
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SOME MARRIAGES LAST, SOME DON’T, AND SOME
ENDURE AN “ARRANGEMENT”
Marilyn contacted me from Brazil, in tears. She was an American art dealer who had fallen in love with a Brazilian, moved to his country, and began life as his wife. When she got there, she discovered her in-laws didn’t like that their son had married a foreigner, and they gave Marilyn a hard time. Her feelings of isolation intensified. To make matters worse, her husband traveled for business, and Marilyn was often left alone for long periods of time. Moreover, when he was home, he took a page from his parents’ playbook, and was nasty and belittling to Marilyn.
Five years into the marriage, she had an affair with someone who gave her what she believed she thirsted for. But like most affairs built on fantasy and escape, the romance soon ended.
Attempting to make her own marriage good again, she urged her husband to attend marriage counseling with her. He begrudgingly agreed. During one of their sessions, Marilyn confessed to her affair. Her husband went crazy. Three months later, he engaged in an affair of his own—and boasted to Marilyn about it.
Marilyn downloaded my E-Book Program, How to WIN When Your Mate Cheats. She called it “an eye-opener.” She recognized things she had done to push her husband away, and behaviors he had exhibited that made her feel small. She also acknowledged that just because their marriage was broken, it did not mean they needed to split. Marilyn hired me as her therapist by phone, and I coached her regularly, while her husband continued his therapy in Brazil.
After a year of intense counseling, this couple did make it. They uncovered how they got to where they were, what each of them really wanted, and where they wanted to go from here. I’m such a sucker for happy endings!
BUT AFFAIRS DON’T ALWAYS END HAPPILY. WOULD YOU PUT UP WITH THIS?
67-year-old Irish actor, Michael Gambon, of Harry Potter fame, is involved in a love triangle with his wife of 45 years, and a movie set designer 25 years his junior. His mistress recently gave birth to their baby, and shockingly, both women are tolerating this unique arrangement.
People who know the married pair say, “They are still very much married.” Gambon had moved into a bachelor pad a few years earlier, but then decided to return home with the gift of a pair of expensive sports cars for his wife and him. The cars were supposedly a “thanks for having me back” present. Yet he still remains close to his mistress.
Gambon’s wife is friendly, but she does not mention his mistress or the baby. Instead, she discusses her husband’s new roles. She is remaining with him. “I can only say that there is no way in hell that I would ever put up with this!! What about you??” --Dr. Gilda
Dear Dr. Gilda,
I was the "other woman" to a married man. We used to meet every day while his wife was at work. He said he was in love with me. Our affair lasted 4 months. I finally ended it. I felt guilty lying to his wife, and I also wanted to have my own devoted mate. 99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY reminds me every day that I can only have what I feel I DESERVE. I’ve been raising my Deserve Level with your other e-book, HOW TO WIN WHEN YOUR MATE CHEATS. Next week, I will register for your Mentoring sessions so you can help me heal. You worked with my friend, Margo, and now she’s a changed person!!! Thank you for keeping us all on the right track!
-- Toni Medina, Wyoming
"Dr. Gilda is TV's #1 talk-show therapist; hotter than the Sahara; part philosopher and part stand-up comic"
-- Gannett Newspapers
65% of partnerships in which one partner cheated choose to stay together! With guidance, these relationships CAN survive. But even in couples who split, there is certainly life after betrayal, as evidenced by country music singer, Sara Evans:
Excerpt from
99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY
by
Dr Gilda Carle
PRESCRIPTION #92
Gilda-Gram:
Accept each rejection as life’s protection.
Sara Evans is a platinum-selling country music honey. One of her popular songs is, “When You Were Cheatin.’” With 13 years of marriage and 3 children, she and husband, Craig Schelske, an erstwhile politician, were the poster couple for family values. But as an example of life imitating art, while Evans was in the midst of her “Dancing with the Stars” run in 2006, she suddenly dropped left the competition and made headlines of the kind she didn’t want. She ran home to accuse Schelske of bedding down their former nanny. (How many celebrity nanny affairs must we bear?) She also claimed her husband had been verbally and emotionally abusive, and he watched porn in the presence of one of their children. Schelske shot back with accusations that Sara neglected their kids and that she’d had numerous affairs herself, including one with her “Dancing with the Stars” partner.
The divorce settlement required Sara to pay her husband $600,000 in alimony. Each of the two agreed to drop their dirty public accusations.
But there’s a rainbow at the end of this ugly story. To all of you who fear you’ll never find another partner, especially one who will accept your kids, Sara Evans dispelled that notion. The country singer found love again, and married radio host Jay Barker, father of 4 children himself.
When a relationship sours, a person can either . . .
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Dear Dr. Gilda,
Yes, I cheated. I am not proud of it, but I got married young and hubby wasn't paying any attention to me. I worked 12-hour days to come home every night to be by myself. Finally, one morning, he went to work, and I left for 3 days. Can't say I had a miserable time, but now that I have kids, I wouldn't do it again. We went for counseling and now we are happy. But I need 99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY to constantly remind me how to CONTINUE to be a loving spouse. With the routines of married life, sometimes we forget. And there’s nothing wrong with a little help—especially yours!
-- Lucinda Paul, Toronto
Dear Dr. Gilda,
My ex-wife cheated and left me for her boss. To be fair, I didn't pay her enough attention or give her enough affection. Though I didn't know why at the time, I was very closed off and introverted. I don't think I knew how to be a good husband. 99 PRESCRIPTIONS FOR FIDELITY reminds me every day of what I need to do in my next marriage—and believe me, there will definitely be a next marriage. I’m a reformed man now.
-- Chad Roberts, Georgia
FAITHFUL LOVE AND LONGEVITY ARE POSSIBLE!
Actor Chris Cooper told Cindy Adams in one of her columns, "I'm married many years. I work at it. When I f - - - up and I'm confronted with it, I repair the damage and don't let my ego get in the way. My wife wouldn't take it if I didn't behave properly. She'd be up my backside real quick. She's a writer. Smarter than I. More energy. Keeps things interesting. But we're a team. I'm interested in her life, I know to give her distance. I respect when she's with her friends. Listen, I'm sometimes gone months at a time, so it's also total trust."
Cooper has the right idea about marital teamwork. He confesses his own vulnerabilities, respects his wife for her achievements, and honors his commitment and vows. He is also “interested in [his wife’s] life,” which is one of the missing ingredients in most relationships that fail
YOU, TOO, CAN HAVE TRUSTING LOVE!
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